Adultery, Incest, and Paedophilia is Sexual Abuse!
Buddha said this:
What, householder friends, is the Dhamma explanation befitting for oneself?
Here, householder friends, a Noble Disciple reflects thus: If someone were to
commit adultery with my wife, that would neither be pleasing, nor agreeable to
Similarly, if I were to commit adultery with another man's wife, that would also
illicit sex, and horny fornication, which would neither be pleasing, nor
that other man either.... What is displeasing and disagreeable to me, is also displeasing
disagreeable to any other being too. How can I harm and hurt another being with
what provoke, annoy and exasperate myself? Having reflected
repeatedly in this way,
1: He/she will carefully avoid all adultery, sexual, and sensual abuse...
2: He/she will persuade others also to abstain from all adultery,
3: He/she will speak praising behaving faithfully, loyal, in trustworthy
In this very way is this advantageous bodily behaviour
purified in all it's 3 respects!
should never mentally hurt or harm other beings, even when Greedy for Sex!
What is Sexual Abuse
Grouped Sayings of the Buddha. Samyutta Nikāya. [V:354]
Thread 7: To the people at the Bamboo gate...